The title of this post wasn't capitalized at random; the upper case ME and I are intended to show emphasis. The old maxim, "There's no 'I' in team," is an exhortation to think of others with whom we share common purpose, and to be willing to sacrifice for the greater good rather than focusing exclusively on our own selfish desires. Unfortunately, there's not only an "I" in America, there's also a "Me". Our rejection of the team player mentality has become painfully apparent in recent years. The national ideal of "Ask not what your country can do for you - ask what you can do for your country" can now be safely buried beneath JFK's eternal flame at Arlington.
Just as everybody wants to go to heaven but nobody wants to die, nobody likes paying taxes but everyone expects the road to be paved, and to make matters worse, Americans tend to bristle at the idea of coming together to solve our problems because in this society we celebrate rugged individualism over anything that even remotely smacks of collectivism. While individual drive contributed to our meteoric rise, self-absorption to the exclusion of all else will trigger our fall. We would have achieved only a small fraction of our success if we hadn't also made huge personal sacrifices for the greater good of the country. It's this half of the equation that's been missing from the conversation in the last thirty years. It's been given short shrift by the political left and ignored entirely by the right. Unlike prior generations, we no longer seem to understand the distinction between enlightened self-interest and petty selfishness.
It's heartbreaking to watch my country that once stood alone in greatness sliding towards the middle of the pack. It's even more painful to realize that our decline and fall is self-inflicted and brought about in large part because we can't seem distinguish between the government and the society. We talk about the government as though it were a disembodied iron fist beating us into submission rather than a mechanism through which we come together and decide what we want to do as a nation. We've become so fractured and dysfunctional as a society that we can't even have a constructive, civil conversation about what our priorities are and how we might achieve our goals and solve our problems, much less undertake the difficult task of executing the solutions.
Most of all, I'm bothered by the consummate and ill-founded arrogance of those who spend their lives wailing about how put upon they are because society asks them contribute like those who came before them and built the country we love. These malcontents are aMErIcans. These people are like the dreaded third generation ne'er-do-wells who squander what was handed to them on a silver platter. The first generation rises from rags and builds a business to be proud of. The second generation grows up watching the hard work, sacrifice and the glory of success and expands the business, generating real wealth. The third generation, growing up knowing nothing but country club life and a sense of entitlement, destroys what others worked so hard to build.
These aMErIcans think that the world should just leave them alone to work their magic, and that their success is born exclusively of their great gifts and hard work. They don't see how their lives were aided because we built an amazing society, educating our populace, building an infrastructure, devising and enforcing laws that protected people, physical and intellectual property, fighting and winning wars that allowed us to establish favorable business arrangements, and on and on. All of these things came about because prior generations gave so unselfishly for the good of the country. Because of the enlightenment and great sacrifice of those who came before, these aMErIcans were born on a mountain top, yet they act as though they summited the peak themselves without the aid of oxygen or Sherpa guides.
To those Americans who came before me and allowed me to be born into a life that most can only dream of, I lack the words to adequately express my respect and gratitude. Let me also apologize for the ungrateful, greedy, solipsistic aMErIcans who have risen to political prominence lately. They disgrace your legacy and you deserve much, much better.
